How Positive Emotions Can Save Your Holidays

Living Positively Is Vital to Success in Life

There are times we all get tired of hearing we need to “be more positive.” Is positivity some kind of weird self-help theory that instructs us to feel “good” when things in life are painful, difficult, or tragic?

This is exactly what I thought. Strong arm myself into the person I should be by reading another self-help book, listening to a pop-preacher’s message. or brainwashing myself into believing something about my life that isn’t currently true. But that’s not positivity at all. photo - Think Positive Poster

Positivity is not about simple self-help techniques. It is about being a healthier version of yourself by building important things in your life – like positive emotions. These include joy, serenity, gratitude, love and amusement – emotions we all need more of in our lives! It’s about creating ways to make the amazing things about life shine brighter and happen more often. It’s also about a better you filled with kindness, meaning, and purpose – the version of you that creates personal fulfilment and promotes healthy relationships.

According to Barbara Fredrickson, author of the book, Positivity, “when we experience a positive emotion, our vision literally expands, allowing us to make creative connections, see our oneness with others, and face our problems with clear eyes. Second, as we make a habit of seeking out these pleasing states, we change and grow, becoming better versions of ourselves, developing the tools we need to make the most out of life.”

Isn’t that something you want in your life? The first place we have to start is realising that, we are enough. You have all the resources inside of you to passionately live the kind of life you desire. It’s not about perfection. It is about coming alive in areas of your life that have been dormant and tapping into what’s already inside of you.  As Brené Brown says, “The opposite of scarcity is not abundance. It’s enough. I’m enough.”

This is also a faith issue. I’m convinced that we were all created to “create.” We create positive or negative things by how we act and what we say. A simple example is one I’ve mentioned in a previous post. If you speak in a positive way (internally and externally – in other words, what you say to yourself and what you say verbally), positive chemicals are released in your body. If you speak negatively chemicals are realised that shut you down and can even lead to depression.  You can read more about this in a fascinating article by Harvard Business Review here. That’s why Proverbs 18:21 says, “Death and life are in the power of the tongue, And those who love it will eat its fruit.”

As we approach the holidays, these issues are extremely important parts of our lives. We’ve all seen how one wrong thing said at Thanksgiving can blow-up a family event. Don’t remind me of some of our family disasters. 🙂 Focusing on positivity can help this holiday season to be one of your best ever.

The goal of YourPositivityCoach is to do exactly what’s discussed above: help you build a roadmap – based on scientific research – to help you release the kinds of things in your life that help you flourish. Our commitment is to help you significantly impact the (5) areas of life that make the biggest impact on who you are and what you do: Positive emotions, Engagement, Positive Relationships, Meaning, and Vision.

We will offer life altering tools that will deeply support every aspect of your life, changing not only you, but those you lead. Have a great Thanksgiving! And watch for a very special video releasing tomorrow.

 

 

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5 thoughts on “How Positive Emotions Can Save Your Holidays

  1. So many people I know will be helped by this process and your coaching. It’s not something people can do by “pulling themselves up by their own bootstraps.” We all need help – we need the encouragement and accountability that a coach can provide.